Breaking Free: Stories of Hope and Survival in Nigeria. By Shafa Shuaibu Muhammad

By Comr. Uchenna Umez

Published on January 10, 2026

Aisha's story is one of hope, resilience, and survival. She's one of millions of Nigerian women and girls who've experienced domestic violence. It's time to break the silence and shatter the stigma...

Aisha's voice trembles as she recalls the day she realized she wasn't alone. "I was trapped in a living nightmare," she says, her eyes welling up with tears. "But I found the courage to leave, and I'm rebuilding my life."

Aisha's story is one of hope, resilience, and survival. She's one of millions of Nigerian women and girls who've experienced domestic violence. It's time to break the silence and shatter the stigma.

The Reality of Domestic Violence in Nigeria

Domestic violence affects women from all walks of life. 1 in 3 women experience physical or emotional abuse from their partners. 70% of women report experiencing some form of domestic violence.

In Lagos alone, over 600 cases of domestic violence were reported in 2022. Many cases go unreported due to fear, shame, or lack of support.

In Nasarawa State, 852 cases of Gender-Based Violence (GBV) were recorded as of September 2025, with the state government expressing concern over the rising numbers.

The Faces of Abuse

- Physical violence: bruises, broken bones, and fear
- Emotional manipulation: gaslighting, isolation, and control
- Financial control: restricted access to money and employment
- Sexual coercion: forced sex and unwanted touching
- Psychological abuse: threats, intimidation, and stalking

Why Does It Happen?

- Power imbalance and patriarchal norms
- Cultural and societal expectations
- Lack of education and economic opportunities
- Weak laws and enforcement

The Impact

- Physical and emotional trauma
- Limited access to education and employment
- Perpetuation of cycles of violence
- Negative impact on mental health and well-being

Support Services in Nasarawa State

1. One government-funded active shelter located along Lafia-Makurdi Road
2. Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) for timely and coordinated response
3. Emergency lines: 122 (emergency line) and 08069388668 (SARC helpline)
4. ⁠Human Rights Research and Advocacy Forum (HURRAFORUM) 07035109060, 07035008577

You Can Help Break the Cycle

a. Listen to survivors and believe their stories
b. Challenge harmful norms and stereotypes
c. Support organizations working on the ground
d. Advocate for stronger laws and enforcement
e. Educate yourself and others about healthy relationships

Together, We Can Make a Difference

Let's work together to create a safer, more equitable society for all Nigerian women and girls. Share Aisha's story, raise awareness, and let's break the silence on domestic violence.